What a Man, What a Man, What a Man.

So settling for less is a thing in the past..I want to tell you about my man (even if I haven't meet him)

My Man is...
Someone who is loving, caring, and kind...

Someone who loves God more than he could ever love me..

Someone who not only sets goals but also meets them..

Someone who is not afraid to show how they feel...

Someone that makes me say "what a man, what a man, what a mighty good man!"..

Someone that will be there for me even when I do the ugly cry...

Someone that love me for me and all that I have to offer...

Someone that loves my family as much as I do...

Someone that can take me out when they are broke and we still have a good time..

Someone that is able to put a smile on face in the midst of a storm...

Someone that has a personality that is simply amazing...

Someone that is patient...

Someone that can sit in a quiet room with me and we will not be bored...

Someone that can cook...

Someone that knows without a shadow of a doubt that he is willing to wake up next
to me every single morning...even with morning breath...

Someone who is genuine, modest and humble....

Someone who pick his battles wisely....

Someone that is a family oriented person....

This is probably a small portion of a long list of things to add, but if any one was considering being with me they would have to start checking the list off...lol

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Movin on Up

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AMANDA JOY IS GETTING IT TOGETHER!!!..LOL

In all seriousness I really am getting it together..as of yet, I have not been blogging due to the fact that I spilled something to drink all over my keyboard while laughing..honest mistake and though my laptop still works I prefer not to use the on-screen keyboard. I know that you are dying to hear whats going on in my life so here it is..I am moving back home to cali...for 2 months..I plan on attending Grambling State University in Jan. during the spring semester. I do miss home my family, my friend and who could forget my dog..lol..I honestly believe that God allowed me to be in dallas for a reason..not only have I made some of the most amazing friends but I have also learned so much about life and that there is more to it that meets the eye..I took everything for granted..and never seemed to realize how life if truly lived..they say you live and you learn..you never stop learning, experience is a class that you will never graduate from..you cant even get kicked out of it..lol..I am working on getting a car I recently received my license .. so I am working as hard as I can to make sure that I can get a car. Life is what you make it..and responsibility is one of the hardest things ever in life..especially when you don't feel like being responsible...

That was my update.

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Long time.. No talk..

So..wats been up?? Not much just work and getting ready to get ready for school..lol.

I am learning to wait, they say that good things come to those who wait, and I have always been that type of person to try to rush things I don't like to wait. Now I am learning because I have begun to notice that when I try to do speed up the process something always seems to go wrong. In more senses than one.. Today I was reminded that I was waiting for my night and shining armor..It was not like I forgot but at the same time I needed a reminder.. I have been reminded of so many things lately, things that I know but choose not to hear from myself, heck I barely choose to hear it from anyone else, But right now I realize that I left cali, thinking that I could not be changed that I will not let anything around me influence me or how I feel..But has it?? H.. E..double hockey sticks.. yes!!..lol..But yet with such a stubborn attitude I choose to have an attitude of, I can change I will choose not to let things influece me..but determination does not force itself on you, it is something that you have to want, something that you have to grasp, something that no one can give to you or do for you..determination is only something that you choose to have..I keep saying that I want to be determined, But in the end its words, true determination is a combination of perseverence and fight. And for me to question if I have it is a no..

So the big question is what do I really want, what do i need to be determined about, ...

wow..I really just went from waiting to a compltly different subject.

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